Has pressure increased in your life? Has the energy felt more intense? Here’s a theory:
The increasing tension and chaos in this world is the acid test for our spirits. In spite of the constant discord and divide and conquer games, people are now being united who feel like they’ve known each other forever, but just met…in this lifetime.
People are coming together and choosing to make time for one another and reduce their time on social media, or engaging in their distractions of choice.
Real conversations are being had. Ones about change. Ones about fulfilling our life purposes. Ones about how to survive the times we are in. Conversations that go far beneath the surface, where we all see that we have been suffering in silence for far too long, and due to a collective self sabotage toward love and connection, because we have so many open wounds that might get accidentally touched, we have stayed guarded. But this suffering and isolation that has swept over the planet amongst humans… a lot of us are starting to wake up and make the choice:
To try again. To take the chance. To be vulnerable. To connect. To start showing up to life… after many years of being in survival mode, often alone, even if social media makes it look otherwise.
Of course this is not everyone. This is the nature of polarity planet. To the same degree we see miracles of people surviving the unthinkable and still emerging with love in their hearts, we also see people going off the rails and becoming more and more inhumane as the days go by.
No one said life was easy or even remotely fair. They didn’t say much at all, come to think of it. But I don’t think anyone who is alive now had any idea we’d be living through these times.
I’ve already spoke at length on my last podcast (“Hypnotized Minds”, on the great silencing with tesstamona podcast) on what I believe social media and technology plus a culture of fear and polarized politics is doing to us. It is not just the killing of the mind, it is the killing of human nature - love.
Yet love still prevails. You can’t destroy it completely. Again, we live on a polarity planet, so as long as what we consider “not love” exits, love also has to exist - to the exact same extent. That is a Natural Law, the Law of Polarity.
Hopefully this is helpful to someone who feels like they can’t find love, who feels like everything around them is ruthless and maddening. I know this sounds weird, but that is your evidence according to universal laws, that the opposites are also in effect.
How one gets to the “other side”? We all have our own journeys. I can’t necessarily tell you how. Sometimes it looks like a philosophy, program or belief to follow/adopt, other times, like what I’ve experienced recently, is grueling years of suffering, learning from that suffering, then taking it a step further and alchemizing it into purpose — even if your heart is still broken into pieces.
Before you know it, the universe will absolutely blow your mind. Something so good will come into your life, something you thought you’d never experience, and everything will change overnight. I say this because that just happened to me.
After YEARS of dealing with the ABSENCE of what I wanted, something I wanted more deeply than words could describe showed up.
The good thing? I know how to function in both scenarios. I also have the maturity now to not cling tightly, and to savor every single second, because I stay true to Memento Mori - everything has an expiration date. Nothing is permanent. Everyone reading this will take their last breath at some point.
There is great liberation here, because we already know loss. We know grief. We know pain. We know emptiness. We know death. So when things we consider to be “life” come back around, which they always will because everything moves in cycles, we can enjoy them and be present with them on a much deeper level. We don’t waste our time anymore. Our values change. Like Sade has sung for years, we Cherish the Day.
I write this because I had news from back home surrounding more deaths from overdoses. I will not go into any of that in this post. Everyone knows that people are dying at exponential rates, and the reason for this is because we have a crisis in the very nature of our humanity.
As someone who has been off drugs and in recovery for over 13 years, and who has also worked in the drug and alcohol field as a social worker, I strongly disagree that addiction is genetic.
What else is passed on in families besides genes? BEHAVIORS. Ever heard the term “generational curse”? It’s not a curse, it’s just repeated behavior from people we learned from.
Our energy is contagious and has the power to actually alter our genetics, the study of epigenetics as well as quantum physics proves this.
I don’t think that’s the only reason though. I do think that we have a massive crisis of a LACK of connection with one another, with our environments, with our true nature, with nature itself, and with ourselves. I think we live in an unnatural society which is collapsing all around us, to which I say: GOOD.
The time is now. You were born for this. We all incarnated for this.
To those who wish to show up to life:
Join the broken, the ragged, the jaded, the full of love, the fools, the hopeful, join the ones who show up in person, who renounce the life of virtual spectator and choose to PARTICIPATE in co-creating reality.
We are out here.
Taking a hiatus of now what is nearly 5 weeks from all social media has unbelievably changed my life.
I don’t feel the need to say much more, other than we are OUT HERE…. Not on the screen. You HAVE to participate in life, or you will be numbed out, unfulfilled and carried to a fate someone predetermined for you long ago on a meaningless conveyor belt.
If you’re in America? The bonus is, you’ll be well entertained, so it won’t hurt as much. Yet this is also the reason so many seek out addictions / alcohol / drugs, and guess what, social media, the phone, our obsessions with ourselves, money, seeking fame or status, those are addictions too, and often times they can be worse.
They just don’t carry the same stigma.
In an ocean of lost souls, there is a galaxy of love reflecting down on it. If you are feeling lost, if you feel frustrated, unfulfilled, like so much pressure and grief is on you and you couldn’t possibly open up to anyone because no one cares and no one would understand, I RELATE.
I understand that completely. A lot of people are living their lives on airplane mode as a way to cope, and it’s like talking to a brick wall. You aren’t wrong when you think they don’t care about you. They stopped letting themselves care about anything, because vulnerability became uncomfortable, so they shut off.
But do not focus on this. Do not. If you keep going with the intention of finding your tribe, finding love, and also embodying that ability to be present with yourself and others (thats when things really changed for me, when I focused on what I was bringing to the table, not just what I wanted brought to me) YOU ABSOLUTELY WILL FIND WHAT YOU SEEK. As an ancient Magickal teaching states…
That which you seek, is also seeking you.
The way to find it? Do the opposite of what this wacked out society tells you to do. SLOW DOWN.
Get quiet.
Unplug.
Listen for your voice.
You already have all the answers and all the direction. It will come.
Go find a waterfall. Get out of the city. Turn off your phone. When you talk to people, listen to them. Don’t just endlessly word vomit about yourself. I know it’s hard sometimes, because we are all deprived of genuine connection, so when we get the chance to talk, we often forget there’s another person involved, because it’s been so long since we’ve been heard.
Just try to start noticing. Little by little, you can make tiny corrections, and it is the TINY actions and habit changes that compound and lead to true transformation, much more often than the dramatic “IM OFFICIALLY DOING THIS CRAZY THING RIGHT NOW AND ITS GONNA CHANGE EVERYTHING”…only to abandon whatever resolve it was a few days later because you didn’t have the BASICS down, you didn’t have a system built in place, you didn’t have the foundation.
This leads to a feeling of failure. You are not a failure though. You were just never taught how to find your voice, none of us were.
It’s okay. Do not judge yourself, no matter what you have done. There is great liberation, and great love for you here. No matter who you are.
If you are reading this, you are necessary to the dramatic shift on the planet. A revolution of the spirit is called for. An attitude adjustment toward love and connection is called for.
Notice how the ego sabotages anything real, even if we think we want it at first? It’s fascinating honestly. Most of these behaviors are unconscious/programmed. But when you make them conscious, they change, almost instantly. This is the nature of shadow work.
Our time is now. The time to come together and answer the unheard call of every human being, the call that wants love, connection, togetherness, and an end to the false world which is currently undergoing a controlled demolition.
Our time is now because if it isn’t now, the choice of the new world will be made for us, and it will not be made in our favor.
If we choose, if we decide to stop being catatonic and wake the fuck up, if we decide to surrender to the flow of life, if we surrender our broken hearts to the fires of love and become purified, if we start being mindful of our own behaviors and start seeing how everything we see that bothers us in others is a reflection of an unaddressed disturbance in ourselves, we can have that spiritual revolution.
The need to escape by drugging ourselves to death goes away. I know this from experience.
Many will relate, many will not, but I think I’ll end this entry here.
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Yesssssss! The revolution is within each of us, and together. That “together” part is key. We’re here, we’re transmuting together. Love to all.